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Food for thought
Some say that the middle years in a marriage are crucial
In the early years, couples want each other
In the late years, they need each other
What do you think?
Some say we marry three, not one, persons:
1. The person we think they are
So, be more realistic about our expectations (as many have
discovered)?
2. The person they are
So, be more accepting (within limits of course)?
3. The person who has become who they are after marrying us!
So, be more mindful of how we treat our partners?
Example: A wife who is normally soft spoken, mild tempered,
humble, respectful and accommodating became aggressive and
arrogant after her husband has been rude, belittling and verbally
abusive over the years And he complains in counselling that his
wife has changed after marriage!
What do you think?
Food for thought
Some say that the middle years in a marriage are crucial
In the early years, couples want each other
In the late years, they need each other
What do you think?
Some say we marry three, not one, persons:
1. The person we think they are
So, be more realistic about our expectations (as many have
discovered)?
2. The person they are
So, be more accepting (within limits of course)?
3. The person who has become who they are after marrying us!
So, be more mindful of how we treat our partners?
Example: A wife who is normally soft spoken, mild tempered,
humble, respectful and accommodating became aggressive and
arrogant after her husband has been rude, belittling and verbally
abusive over the years And he complains in counselling that his
wife has changed after marriage!
What do you think?